Comman Sense Advice By Pastor Jackson

Everyone is on this site to find someone.  And your dream to find love has taken you to Internet Dating.  But there is I want to share with you as you contact and meet people on this site.

1   Be cautious sharing personal information.   It is impossible for any dating website to guarantee that everyone on the site is good God fearing Christians.  So it is my advice not to give to much personal information at first.  Try to ask alot of questions and see if this person his heading in the same direction and have the same core values as you do.

2.   Do your own research.  After a while do a background check on someone.  Sadly there has been horrible stories I have heard about someone meeting somebody on the Internet.  And we all have heard about them.  And you are totally responsible for your actions and not In His Time or any other dating website. 

3.  Be slow in your dating.  I recommend that you call his Preacher and ask what he knows about him.  I also recommend that you have a dating counselor.  Someone that is older and wiser than you that could see things that you don’t as a single person.  A good person would be your Pastor, if your Father is around, or a wise counselor in your church that you respect and would be willing to talk honestly about the relationship.  But remember who ever you choose give them veto power in your dating relationship.  When you meet that person I would recommend that you don’t go alone.  Bring someone with you and meet in a public place.  If the person ever tries to get you to meet him/her at a hotel or some private place, then forget that person as a possible dating partner and future mate.  If they want to get physical with you don’t fool your self in thinking that it is love.  It is lust and they probable  messed around with some before you and will mess around with someone after you.  A good person to bring with you  is someone of the same gender as the person you are meeting.

     These a some common sense advice I would give any of my church members or child, and it applies to any age.  You can never be to careful.